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Actress Sandhya Mridul accuses Alok Nath of sexual harassment


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Actress Sandhya Mridul who has starred in films like Page 3, Saathiya, Angry Indian Goddesses and Socha Na Tha, broke her silence and opened up about facing sexual harassment by Alok Nath. He was recently even accused of rape by filmmaker Vinita Nanda. In a detailed account with a portal, Sandhya Mridul shared what she faced while she was working in a telefilm with Alok Nath.

Sandhya shared her account with a powerful thought. She recalled how she went to Kodaikanal to shoot a telefilm with Alok Nath and Reema Lagoo who had to play her father and mother respectively. It was during the shoot when the actor got drunk and misbehaved with Mridul. 

Sandhya Mridul Alok Nath

Sandhya shared her story on her social media handle saying, “In truth & solidarity.
I’m with you @vintananda #metoo”


She wrote, “At the very start of my career, I was shooting a telefilm in Kodaikanal. I was the lead. And very excited. Alok Nath was my on-screen father and Reema Lagoo my mother.

Alok Nath was very impressed with me and called me "God's own child" and openly praised me every day. I was over the moon. I was a huge fan of this wonderful Babuji.. I felt so fortunate happy and confident.

 Till one night after an early pack up. The cast went out for dinner. At dinner he got progressively drunk and started insisting I sit with him and that I belonged to him and other stuff that I don't clearly remember but it made me very nervous and uncomfortable. My co-star realised what was happening and got me out of there. We went back to the hotel without dinner. It was late and I was back in my room and the costume dada came to my room to give me my clothes for the next day as I had a very early call time. Few minutes after he left there was a knock on my door I opened the door thinking it was him again .. it was an inebriated Alok Nath I instinctively tried to shut the door but he pushed it and lunged at me, I stepped aside he went flying past me into the room .. I fell back toward the bathroom door he lunged at me again screaming I want you you're mine .. I dodged again he went into the bathroom and I think I latched the loo door and ran out of my room down the corridor into the lobby. Fortunately, my DoP was there making a call from the reception ..

He came back to my room what ensued was traumatic because a belligerent Alok Nath refused to leave.. kept screaming shouting threatening abusing trying to grab me.. but at some point we managed to make him leave. The hairdresser was called and made to sleep in my room I was so shaken up.

In a few hours I had scenes with Bauji, in one I had to sit on his lap and cry. I still feel nauseous when i think of it.

It didn't stop there .. every evening he would drink and every night calls were made to my room. I dreaded the ring.. I had to keep it off the hook most of the times. But then he would come calling. It was a catch 22 situation. I had the hairdresser moved in to my room permanently. I was a nervous wreck.

Few days later I got very sick & was laid up and couldn't shoot. The stress had broken me. He continued to traumatise me with calls. And knocks. The hairdresser would answer. One day when he landed up at the door and cried and begged to be allowed in to sodas to me to apologise.. I couldn't take it anymore I told her to accompany him in..he pulled a chair next to my bed and howled. Said he was an alcoholic and that he had destroyed everything his family his marriage everything's and I was like his daughter and he respected me and that he was very sorry. He says he had learnt his lesson and that he would go to therapy and change it all..
 
I finally broke my silence I screamed shouted cried and it was done. I believed him. I had to.

He left. He got away. I don't know how I shot with him for the remaining days and weeks.

I'm grateful to my co-actors , my DOP & especially the late Reema lagoo for finally taking him on & protecting me like a mother from then on.

But it was too late. The damage was done. A very disillusioned, disgraced & unsure me returned home. He went on to return to Bombay and tell people I was difficult and arrogant. All apologies forgotten. He was a popular man I was a newbie. He laid the foundation others like him built on. All those who heard 'No'. Attitude my biggest crime.  

The deal breaker.

Mr. Alok Nath. You know this to be true. As do few others.

I had to forgive you for myself then and for my sanity but I will never forgive you for what you did with Vinta. Whom I have always respected and loved.

I stand by you Vinta. What I went through is nothing compared to you. I'm so sorry.

More power to you.

To us all.

But I stand with Tanushree. And Vinta. And every woman. Who has been through this & will follow suit and break her silence.

We have a voice.

I'd like to tell all the newcomers that they should use it. Correctly. Honestly. Wisely. Fearlessly.

Don't be ashamed.

Don't be scared.

Don't bury.

Don't let it fester. And corrode your soul.

Let's Speak.

Let's keep this fire going.

#TimesUp”

Sandhya Mridul Alok Nath

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Actress Sandhya Mridul who has starred in films like Page 3, Saathiya, Angry Indian Goddesses and Socha Na Tha, broke her silence and opened up about facing sexual harassment by Alok Nath. He was recently even accused of rape by filmmaker Vinita Nanda. In a detailed account with a portal, Sandhya Mridul shared what she faced while she was working in a telefilm with Alok Nath.

Sandhya shared her account with a powerful thought. She recalled how she went to Kodaikanal to shoot a telefilm with Alok Nath and Reema Lagoo who had to play her father and mother respectively. It was during the shoot when the actor got drunk and misbehaved with Mridul. 

Sandhya Mridul Alok Nath

Sandhya shared her story on her social media handle saying, “In truth & solidarity.
I’m with you @vintananda #metoo”


She wrote, “At the very start of my career, I was shooting a telefilm in Kodaikanal. I was the lead. And very excited. Alok Nath was my on-screen father and Reema Lagoo my mother.

Alok Nath was very impressed with me and called me "God's own child" and openly praised me every day. I was over the moon. I was a huge fan of this wonderful Babuji.. I felt so fortunate happy and confident.

 Till one night after an early pack up. The cast went out for dinner. At dinner he got progressively drunk and started insisting I sit with him and that I belonged to him and other stuff that I don't clearly remember but it made me very nervous and uncomfortable. My co-star realised what was happening and got me out of there. We went back to the hotel without dinner. It was late and I was back in my room and the costume dada came to my room to give me my clothes for the next day as I had a very early call time. Few minutes after he left there was a knock on my door I opened the door thinking it was him again .. it was an inebriated Alok Nath I instinctively tried to shut the door but he pushed it and lunged at me, I stepped aside he went flying past me into the room .. I fell back toward the bathroom door he lunged at me again screaming I want you you're mine .. I dodged again he went into the bathroom and I think I latched the loo door and ran out of my room down the corridor into the lobby. Fortunately, my DoP was there making a call from the reception ..

He came back to my room what ensued was traumatic because a belligerent Alok Nath refused to leave.. kept screaming shouting threatening abusing trying to grab me.. but at some point we managed to make him leave. The hairdresser was called and made to sleep in my room I was so shaken up.

In a few hours I had scenes with Bauji, in one I had to sit on his lap and cry. I still feel nauseous when i think of it.

It didn't stop there .. every evening he would drink and every night calls were made to my room. I dreaded the ring.. I had to keep it off the hook most of the times. But then he would come calling. It was a catch 22 situation. I had the hairdresser moved in to my room permanently. I was a nervous wreck.

Few days later I got very sick & was laid up and couldn't shoot. The stress had broken me. He continued to traumatise me with calls. And knocks. The hairdresser would answer. One day when he landed up at the door and cried and begged to be allowed in to sodas to me to apologise.. I couldn't take it anymore I told her to accompany him in..he pulled a chair next to my bed and howled. Said he was an alcoholic and that he had destroyed everything his family his marriage everything's and I was like his daughter and he respected me and that he was very sorry. He says he had learnt his lesson and that he would go to therapy and change it all..
 
I finally broke my silence I screamed shouted cried and it was done. I believed him. I had to.

He left. He got away. I don't know how I shot with him for the remaining days and weeks.

I'm grateful to my co-actors , my DOP & especially the late Reema lagoo for finally taking him on & protecting me like a mother from then on.

But it was too late. The damage was done. A very disillusioned, disgraced & unsure me returned home. He went on to return to Bombay and tell people I was difficult and arrogant. All apologies forgotten. He was a popular man I was a newbie. He laid the foundation others like him built on. All those who heard 'No'. Attitude my biggest crime.  

The deal breaker.

Mr. Alok Nath. You know this to be true. As do few others.

I had to forgive you for myself then and for my sanity but I will never forgive you for what you did with Vinta. Whom I have always respected and loved.

I stand by you Vinta. What I went through is nothing compared to you. I'm so sorry.

More power to you.

To us all.

But I stand with Tanushree. And Vinta. And every woman. Who has been through this & will follow suit and break her silence.

We have a voice.

I'd like to tell all the newcomers that they should use it. Correctly. Honestly. Wisely. Fearlessly.

Don't be ashamed.

Don't be scared.

Don't bury.

Don't let it fester. And corrode your soul.

Let's Speak.

Let's keep this fire going.

#TimesUp”

Sandhya Mridul Alok Nath

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